In September of 2003, I was on a panel at the SA Writers' Festival with the wonderful Lucy Clark, author of Mills & Boon medical romances that have sold in their billions around the world.  During question time, I commented offhandedly that I should put more romance in my writing.  Lucy called me on that, inviting me a year later to give the opening address to the Romance Writers of SA the following year, to see if I had made any progress.  The pressure was really on.  I can probably wing a dozen topics in SF and fantasy--especially in front of a crowd as intelligent, good-looking and above all forgiving as this one--but the romance scene was wholly new to me.  Naturally, I was terrified.

So what did I talk about?  I'm not known for writing romance, or even for being terribly romantic.  I have, however, published 20 novels and 60-odd short stories.  Maybe this is a bold claim, but I don't think it's possible to tell that many stories without using romance in some form or other.  People are people, and falling in love is something people do--consciously or unconsciously, against their will as often as not--and to ignore that aspect of humanity would be like drawing characters who weren't afraid or never got hungry.  It just wouldn't do.

In my short stories, I've dealt with issues like obsession, messy break-ups, betrayal, sex, dysfunctional relationships, holiday flings, and the grief of losing a loved one to death.  These stories wouldn't have worked without the assumption that people fall in love and desire each other.  My first novel, METAL FATIGUE, has a classic Hollywood-style romantic thread that plays right down the line, and my Books of the Change recounts a developing relationship between two teenagers that I can't help but think of as romantic, if in an underplayed, slow-paced way.  And hell, I've written Star Wars novels, which are riddled with romance...

But it is true that, in some of my novels and series, romance has been downplayed to the point of invisibility.  For Evergence, set 500,000 years in the future, the sole titillating detail comes when two characters hold hands, right at the very end.  Not a ripped bodice in sight.  In others, such as the Orphans series, romance is played as a back-up riff, like rhythm guitar in a standard rock and roll combo.  It keeps things moving along, but isn't the core concern of the story.

I used to justify this by saying that writing speculative fiction demands an awful lot of extra stuff crammed into the mix.  ...

As well as plot and dialogue, there's a serious amount of worldbuilding going on, and sometimes things like romance can be squeezed out.  A lot of science fiction is like that; there might be sex, but little that makes the heart flutter.  It's not that my characters are inhuman; in fact, very few of my characters are alien, and none of them are unemotional.  It's just that romance became sidelined for a while in my fiction--to its detriment, I think.

I'll come back to this later.  Back to my original bold statement that I was going to try to be more romantic.  It hadn’t come out of nowhere.  The idea had been bubbling away in the back of my brain for a while.  People had commented on the lack of hot love in my books, and I myself found the fiction I produced slightly at odds with the fiction I enjoyed reading.  People like romance; I like romance.  Why wasn't I writing it?  What was I afraid of? 

I think, partly, I was afraid of looking like a fool.  Romance is, as I'm sure you're all aware, very, very hard to write well.  If I tried and failed, I'd feel like a laughing stock.

But writers need to challenge themselves in order to stay fresh.  ...

If we stick to the same thing, to familiar themes and modes, we grow stale.  And nothing kills an author (or a would-be romantic) faster than boredom.

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Perhaps I should talk briefly about romance--which Benjamin Disraeli once defined "as the offspring of fiction and love"--or what I think romance is, at least.  I wouldn't dream of portraying myself as an expert.  I am lucky enough to have experienced love in several different ways, in the real world, not just in books.  I am fortunate enough to have fallen instantly in love twice in my life.  I have loved briefly and shallowly, as well as deeply and long--and either way, it's been a wonder for me, a nerdy shy boy who took a long time to work up the courage to ask a girl out.  I've learned since that there are no rules, that notions of right and wrong don't really come with the territory.  Sure, we think we know where the boundaries are, but when emotions run high, anything can happen.  We change, we alter, we sacrifice, we demand, we yearn, we revolt, we beg, we aspire to greatness.  In the grip of love, life is rich and wonderful, and sometimes awful and overwhelming too.  "Romance," as Elinor Glyn observed, "is the glamour which turns the dust of everyday life into a golden haze." 

For me, it's a process.  Whereas sexual attraction can happen in an instant--and, let's face it, for men the whole show can be over in a few minutes--love can take years to unfold, growing and evolving with the people involved.  Love can die, too, or return from the dead.  It comes from nowhere, and can go back there in a moment, for reasons we don't always understand.

I think it's that basic mysteriousness that draws romance to fantasy, or vice versa.  Magic and love aren't really so different, as our ancestors understood.  In some cultures, magical ability is tied to a woman's virginity; lose one and you automatically lose the other.  Not for nothing is modern-day magic--astrology, palm- and tarot-readings--so often tied up with finding and maintaining relationships.  Think of village witches, and we think automatically of love potions.  Or I do, anyway.  Hopefully I'm not the only one in the room with those particular wires crossed.

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I said earlier that spec fic and romance can be awkward bedfellows.  Actually, that's a barefaced lie.  That was just an excuse for feeling like it was okay to ignore romance.  ...

In fact, spec fic and romance are old partners, going back as far as Frankenstein, through Dracula, to modern-day efforts like the X-Files, Bladerunner, the Princess Bride, and the underrated Ladyhawke.  I'm talking TV shows and movies here, and there are plenty of famous couples: Flash Gordon & Dale Arden, Buck Rogers & Wilma Deering, Han Solo & Princess Leia Organa, Aragorn & Arwen, Buffy and Angel, etc.  And it's not just movies.  The printed genre is riddled with romance.

There are many novels and authors that straddle both fantasy and romance genres.  Perhaps the classic example is Anne McCaffery, who went from being a successful romance writer in the 70s to being a world-famous fantasy writer with her Dragonrider novels, and others.  I devoured those books as a teenager, and not just because they had neat telepathic dragons that could fly.  The relationships were what [clinched] it for me.  Every book had a new romantic dilemma--a pair of star-crossed lovers; or strangers thrown together by chance that, although sparring at first, soon give in to a mutual attraction; or, my personal favourite, the old friends who have never considered each other romantic partners before suddenly looking at each other in a new light and feeling the sparks begin to fly.  This was romantic fantasy in its purest form, and I devoured it.

Fantasy and romance have been colliding ever since.  Buffy and Angel showed how the genres could feed off each other, and strengthen each other, by playing on resonant themes.  Sexual and emotional predation take on a new kind of horror when vampires are added to the mix.  We feel, in everyday life, that love has the power to change the course of worlds, but what if that was literally true?  Catching a stranger's eye across a crowded bar takes on a whole new dimension in such a world.

Recent writers and works of romantic fantasy include Jacqueline Carey's Kushiel's Legacy trilogy, Lian Hearn's Tales of the Otori, Kate Elliott, Kim Wilkins, Patricia McKillip, Celia Dart Thornton, Lyn Flewelling, Robyn Hobb, even Whitbread Prize-winning author Philip Pullman.  The Anita Blake series by Laurell K Hamilton treads the same sort of chick-lit territory as Janet Evanovich, but with vampires and werewolves.  There's no end to it, and here's hoping there never will be.

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The other thing I've been thinking about romance--and why it's potentially damaging for a writer to ignore it--is that everyone understands romance and relationships.  They happen every day.  Only the most isolated person in the world would never develop a crush, never feel their heart beat a little faster when someone particular walks into a room, never blush at an inadvertent touch, or agonise over the meaning of it all later on, well after it's over and nothing positively one hundred percent definite happened again.

People have many opinions about what qualifies as a good or acceptable relationship.  You only have to look at magazine bylines to see that the world is crying out for advice in this particular area.  People dream about it, talk about it, gossip about it, commit murders and fight wars over it.  It's everywhere.


On the other hand, not everyone can associate with mortal fear, existential angst, or many of the darker or more complex emotions often associated with thrillers, crime novels, speculative fiction, and literary fiction.

Having spent at least three novels in this kind of territory, I felt it was time to come back to romance and see where it would take me.  I knew it wouldn't be easy, as I said before.  Because people have definite ideas about romance, it's very easy to see when it's done badly.  I don't mean falling victim to clichés.  I have nothing against clichés at all; they're part of the writer's pallet, and they can be employed to great effect in the hands of a skilled storyteller.

My three romance-free novels showed me that I couldn't avoid these particular clichés or modes of writing and be completely satisfied with my own work.  I want to be moved as much as my readers do--and the plain fact is that the stories that have moved me most in recent years, to tears in some cases, have been romances.  These include the touching fables of Hayao Miyazaki; the tragic space operas of Ian M. Banks; the majestic fantasies of Tim Powers--hell, the best TV I've seen in recent years (and I know it's a repeat, but I'm a slow learner) was Sense & Sensibility with the smouldering Colin Firth.  I sat up until three in the morning, finishing off that particular show on DVD because I was completely and utterly hooked by the romance of it all.  Then there's SeaChange, The Time Traveller's Wife, Garden State, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, etc etc etc.

So where to start?  The one thing I knew is that, when it comes to storytelling, you can't force anything.  You may want to write a bestselling thriller like Dan Brown's THE DA VINCI CODE (which has the stink of romance to it too) but sometimes things just don't quite work out the way you want them to.  My novel THE CROOKED LETTER is a case in point.  It was supposed to be a strange love affair between two identical twins and a woman they meet in Europe, an affair which inadvertently brings about the end of the world, but the story came out much darker than I had initially imagined it.  Why?  I don't know, entirely.  I know that you can't write something if your heart isn't 100% behind it; you can't put romance into fantasy just by thinking it'd be a good idea, just as you can't put fantasy into romance simply by adding a few elves and a dragon.  You have to work at it, and feel it, and invest in it, and take risks with it.  And in the end I know that, particularly where romance is concerned, my fiction is powerfully fuelled by real life.

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A writer more famous than me once counselled that we should "write on the edge of our emotions."  There are few sayings in the craft more powerful than this.  In retrospect, I can see my books echoing my love-life with uncanny accuracy, even when I wasn't trying to.  My second novel, THE RESURRECTED MAN, featured a pair of star-crossed detectives forced into physical proximity but remaining emotionally light-years apart.  I wrote this novel shortly after ending a relationship with a woman who lived in Texas, and with whom I had obviously felt feelings of distance and isolation, albeit in a very different way.

The Orphans trilogy, which followed the loveless Evergence series, dealt with a relationship that wasn't romantic at all, but had a certain dependency to it.  The main character yearned for another character far away, while he developed a bond for someone better matched and much closer.  Again, not so different to real life.

In the Star Wars trilogy I co-wrote with Shane Dix, our editors in the US kept pulling the rugs out from under us.  Every time we set up a couple of characters to get together, we'd be told to keep them apart--the literary equivalent of prick-teasing.  Nothing at all like real life there, thank goodness, but it did leave me with a strong romantic urge that had gone utterly unfulfilled.

At about this time, I went from one relationship to another in real life, with something of a painful wrench.  This pain is what clouded THE CROOKED LETTER, I believe.  A novel about the end of a world is not so far removed, thematically, from a novel about the end of a relationship, and I feel now, looking back on it, that I needed to get that angst out of my system before I could finally get down to the good stuff.

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That's where I was in 2003, when I swore to put more romance in my fiction.  I've since finished two very different series.  One was the space opera diptych called Geodesica; the other was a fantasy series called the Books of the Cataclysm.  Both of them are riddled with romance--romance that feels honest and fresh to me, not lashed together and forced into the story where it isn't required.

I'll talk about Geodesica first.  The first book, ASCENT, came out last year, and the second, DESCENT, my twentieth novel, has just been published in Australia.  It's a sprawling space opera filled with post-human characters and an interstellar empire in the making.  There are anti-privacy laws, alien artefacts, conspiracies, big explosions--all the stuff I love so much.  And buried in the middle of all that, driving everything in the book, is the story of two of the three main characters, Dominic Eogan and Melilah Awad.

They have a long and painful history.  It's the old story of two people who meet and make an instant connection, one that defies good sense but can't be denied.  One is a colonist, the other a traveller.  Although they know it will be difficult, they embark on a long-distance relationship that lasts forty years, snatched in blissful moments between long absences.  And for a while, it works.


["Dominic Eogan was a dye that seeped into her," Melilah thinks at one point, "[a dye] coloring everything.  She saw the same friends, did the same work, and went the same places.  But now they all lacked him, as though she was seeing the world through a filter that made it a darker, unhappier place."]

Inevitably, some might say, the relationship ends badly.  Eogan leaves without explanation to embark on a career that will change him, turn him into something she feels she cannot love.  The pain of separation is agonising for both of them.  The lack of communication only makes it worse.

["Sometimes she wished that he had died, not just disappeared.  That would have been easier than coping with his utter rejection of her--and the thought that he was still out there somewhere, imagining himself free."]

Without proper closure, the memories fester; emotions curdle.

150 years later, they meet again under extraordinary circumstances, and are forced, finally, to resolve the issues between them.  Imagine what it would be like to stew over a messy break-up for a century and a half!  In science fiction, we can explore such scenarios.  How long would it take to get over such an incredible silence?  Would it be possible, ever, to heal such a rift and begin the relationship anew?

In extraordinary situations, people do extraordinary things.  That's one of the strengths of fiction in general--not just science fiction: it can put us in situations we might never experience first-hand--like taking a million years to think things over, or literally adopting new identities when old ones have proven dysfunctional.  The existence of such possibilities doesn't mean that love is going to get easier in the future.  Quite the opposite, I believe.  In this complex, modern world, love faces challenges our ancestors couldn't have imagined: on-line affairs; work taking a lover to the other side of the planet; the conflict for women between reproductive and vocational urges; and so on.  It's only going to get more interesting, I think.  Given life-spans hundreds of years long and a whole galaxy to play in, humans are going to keep on inventing new problems and fumbling around in the dark for solutions.

["I'm not the same woman," Melilah tells Eogan towards the end of DESCENT.  Don't mistake me for her--the one who loved you the first time around, then tried to hate you when that failed.  I've changed, just as you have changed.  We're extensions of who we were when we first met, not continuations.  ... It's time to stop thinking about the dead and concentrate on living.  Our relationship isn't something I want to be a victim of; it's something I want to choose and work at. ...  I don't know if we'll have a future together at the end of it, but I'm willing to explore the possibilities.  Are you?"]

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That's Geodesica.  It has kissing, and sex, and closeness, and heartbreak--and, well, I won't reveal if it has a happy ending.  But I will say that from the very beginning I wanted these guys to get together.  It matters to me.  It matters to me because they're drawn deeply from my own life.  Love at first sight, long-distance cravings, working hard to make a dream a reality and to patch up mistakes and misconceptions--that has been my life for the last few years.  It fuels my storytelling like a fire under a cauldron. 


Was Geodesica cathartic for me?  Perhaps.  It was certainly a sometimes-painful expurgation of feelings that can be hard to express in everyday life.  When Melilah agonises over "wrenching emotional dislocation, betrayal of the worst kind--one that might have been avoidable had [Eogan] only talked to her about it, or made a clean break", it's true that I've been on the delivery end of such hurt, to my great regret.  When Dominic Eogan thinks that he "knew better than to call her.  Forgiveness was not--and had never been--an option.  But he wanted to anyway.  Even after so long, he still missed her"--I can explore my own feelings of loss in a way that will, hopefully, not bother anyone else or invade any private spaces.

Writing on the edge of our emotions is a dangerous exercise.  Holding what hurts up to the light and examining its every facet, its every flaw, risks teaching us more about ourselves than we'd like to know.  But it can be rewarding.  THE RESURRECTED MAN taught me about my feelings for my father.  The Books of the Change were inspired by the children in my life, and dealt with my own feeling of frustrated fatherhood.  In Geodesica I confront relationship issues I didn’t deal with as well as I should have, allowing me to move on to a much better headspace.

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Then there's the Books of the Cataclysm.  The last three books in the series, THE BLOOD DEBT, THE HANGING MOUNTAINS and THE DEVOURED EARTH, are all, once again, steeped heavily in romance and love.  There are three main relationships.  Two of the characters, Sal and Shilly, began their relationship in the Books of the Change, when they were teenagers.  Now they're in their twenties and their love is stronger than ever.  That doesn't mean, however, that it's been easy.  When their friend Skender comments that he's glad they're still together because "that's the way it's supposed to be", they "were destined," Shilly responds that that "doesn't make it any easier, believe me.  We may look good now, but it's not always been like this.  We've argued and broken up and sworn we'd never talk to each other again, just like any other couple."  Skender doesn't quite believe her; he's on a romantic journey of his own, and everything looks full of possibility and excitement.  And Sal knows the way he's feeling: "Love wasn't supposed to be painful; in the stories he'd been told as a kid, it didn't seem to be.  Yet there were times he'd thought that, if he'd known just how vulnerable it would make him, he might have stayed in the Haunted City with [his father] and devoted himself to a life of celibacy.  He was glad he hadn't."

That's the core relationship of the book.  It's one based on history and hard work.  "Wait until you've been with someone as long as us," Shilly tells Skender.  "Then you'll know what it's like to have scars no one else can see."  But neither Sal nor Shilly regrets the time they’ve been together; they're not looking for anyone else.  Their relationship is as solid as a relationship can be, and I have no intention of breaking them up.  Ever.

The second relationship is the one driving the story.  Sal possesses a complicated family history involving cuckolds, kidnapping and death.  His mother left his genetic father, Highson, for a journeyman before he was born; while on the run, Sal's grandmother stole his mother back, but couldn't find him; his mother then died trying to escape, losing her mind by magic into a terrible place called the Void Beneath.  Highson, who loved Sal's mother even though that love was never returned, has spent the years since trying to find her, seeking ways to bring her out of the Void, even though such an attempt might well cost him his life.  What he ends up risking, quite by accident, is the life of his son and the safety of the entire world, for the thing he brings out of the Void is not his ex-wife at all, but something much more dangerous.

Is this romance?  It's a love story without a happy ending, but I think it comes from the same place.  It's an acknowledgement from me that people do crazy things for love.  Sometimes they succeed; sometimes they don't.  Highson's quest is noble in its own way, even when it's obsessive and selfish at the same time.  Love is often selfish, and it sometimes hurts the people around us when they get in its way.  "When love conquers all," to quote the final book in the series, "love itself must be conquered."  It takes a greater and more terrible sacrifice than Highson has already made to put things right again, and to heal the rifts between him and the living, rather than him and the dead.

The third relationship in the book involves Sal's teenage friend Skender and a girl Skender meets in the walled city of Laure.  He's a student Stone Mage and she's a grounded flyer.  He'd normally be stuck in his father's school, on the other side of the continent.  She would normally be aloft on a charmed flying wing, looking for treasure in a magical canyon inhabited by monsters.  THE BLOOD DEBT throws them together by chance, as so many unlikely couples have been, in fiction and real life, and what seems at first to be prickly incompatibility gradually becomes mutual respect and attraction.  Skender is a fish out of water.  Chu is the cocky local who needs him just as much as he needs her.

The push and pull of unspoken attraction, the uncertainty of hints and assumptions, misunderstandings and awkwardnesses...  Skender and Chu endure all the awful moments I went through as a teenager.  Earlier, I mentioned my fear of calling someone for a date; that feeling is ingrained in my mind, and poor old Skender is going through it now as a result.


"He froze solid while saying goodnight, [wondering if she was] waiting for him to kiss her.  Part of him wanted to, very much.  The exhilaration of flying together still thrilled through him, even in his exhausted state.  His heart pounded.

"But he had never kissed anyone before and didn't know what to do.  What if he misjudged the moment?  What if she wanted nothing more from him than a chance to get her license back?  What if she thought he was nothing but a geeky kid?

"The moment was gone as soon as it came.  She wished him sweet dreams, inscrutable as ever, and he kicked himself all the way upstairs to his room."

Chu is the sassy heroine of the novel.  She talks back; she's cool in the face of danger; she gives Skender lots of shit.  But she's also a real person, and she pays a price for being the cool one.  She finds it hard to let her guard down, and it takes time for her and Skender to get it together, what with his lack of confidence on the other side of the balance.  But they get there.  The culmination of their relationship is the happy ending I've always wanted to write.  In fact THE BLOOD DEBT ends with a kiss, in the cheesiest and most wonderful way possible.  Ah.  And it all goes downhill from there...

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So there you have it.  Geodesica and the Books of the Cataclysm together amount to six novels, around a million words of romance-fuelled story-telling.  I don't think that makes me a romance writer, but I do think I'm writing better fiction.  I'm tapping into a part of me that has languished in recent years, and I'm feeling happier for it.  I hope that it will make readers happier in turn, and I hope it will lead to more stories featuring romance in the future.  My new series, a dark fantasy series for kids, has a key loving relationship that will develop as the stories unfold.  And Astropolis, my gender-bending gothic space opera, will be full of sex.  Maybe it will lead to more sales, but I don't know about that, and in the end it doesn't really matter.  I write for me, first and foremost.  Everything else is secondary.

That sounds dangerously solipsistic, or onanistic, and perhaps it is.  "To love oneself is the beginning of a life-long romance," as Oscar Wilde once said.

But rather than end on that dubious note, I'll say that is nice to be in love with romance again.  I hope it's a relationship that will last for many more novels to come, and I hope it will continue to be fun.  As Rose Franken said, "Anyone can be passionate, but it takes real lovers to be silly."